Ready For The One is the only program of its kind that not only shows you exactly how to make sure your decision to marry will honor God AND be a testimony to the world - But Also, how to make sure that you’re READY to
MARRY ONCE FOR LIFE.
Identify a godly man ( and avoid wasting years dating the wrong ones)
Validate a relationship to make sure he is ready and willing to invest in marriage
Express what you truly want in a marriage so that no one is confused about expectations
Attract the right type of man and present yourself in a way that he finds irresistible
Avoid dating and start courting in a way that feels authentic, honest and pleasing to God
Develop a deep relationship that is built on a mutual love for God, the church and the vision He has given each of you to fulfill so that you have the best possible chance of a life-long God-honoring marriage
Start a family that is firmly rooted in a love for Christ.
Enjoy a life long, equally yoked marriage with a man that you respect, love and adore. Who will be a good father to your children and loving partner for life.
But Above All Else, Ready For The One will prepare you to confidently SAY YES when he gets down on one knee and asks you to marry him.
Being confidently married to a godly man in a covenant relationship with Christ is THE single most powerful and exciting way to make an impact on the world while raising a family and ministering the life-changing freedom of the gospel to the world.
It’s what allowed me to grow spiritually and fulfill my deepest desires to be a loving mom of two beautiful little girls.
While other marriages are falling apart and are suffering a lack of trust, intimacy, love, and respect; a thriving marriage actually stands as a shining testimony of what is possible through the love of Christ.
It’s the type of marriage that gives others hope and encourages them to believe that true love still exists. You can make an impact on the world and be the change you want to see by being yourself, fully known and loved by your husband.
Planning Your Married Life
We’re gonna start with the end in mind.
Before you invest any more time and energy into dating and starting a relationship you’re going to learn all about what makes a marriage last (and what destroys a marriage).
You’re also going to get an inside scoop as to why saving sex for marriage is still the best way to ensure that your marriage will stand the test of time. I'll also show you why rushing to move in together and test things out, though tempting, is a huge mistake. (Hint: You spoil your chances of a proposal if you rush it!)
Finally, you’ll map out and schedule your entire dating strategy (it’s simpler than you think!) so that you will have a clear picture of what you’ll be working towards throughout the rest of the program.
Discover the secret of what makes a marriage work and what makes a marriage end in divorce.
Learn why courting is actually more effective than dating so that you can resist the temptation to “be his girlfriend" and focus on becoming his wife.
Map out your entire relationship strategy (including courting) so that you can know right from the start how you’re gonna get out there and attract the right man instead of letting the fear of never being loved to drain all of your energy and motivation.
Apply powerful strategic prayer that prepares your heart for the covenant of marriage
Make Peace With Your Past
Nothing is scarier than investing your time, energy and money into a relationship only to come out of it with a broken heart.
Yet this is the nightmare that most women find themselves in.
It’s not that you don’t believe in love, it’s just that you and almost every other woman, have been burnt by love a few too many times.
So you just “wait on the Lord” hoping and praying that God will deliver the right man directly to your doorstep. Fortunately, there’s a better way. And in module 2 I’ll show you how to make peace with your past so that you can move forward and embrace your future with arms wide open.
Meaning, you’ll be armed with total confidence and excitement to start a new relationship.
Learn the 3 best ways to make peace with your past before you move into a new relationship
Refine your understanding of your ideal husband so that you can speak to men in a way that magnetizes and attracts the right one, while repealing time wasters.
Solidify your relationship with God (Hint: This is the key to eliminating fear while nearly guaranteeing that your marriage will be successful.)
Apply the G.R.O.W.T.H Strategy to your walk with God to ensure you’re not using marriage as a silver bullet to “fix” your life.
How to deal with sin so that it doesn’t pollute your relationship
Gain confidence to officially save sex for marriage and move forward knowing that you have the ability to overcome temptation while gaining more respect from a potential partner.
The Art of First Impressions
Raise your hand if you’ve ever had this problem: you want to make a good first impression, so you take out literally every piece of clothing that you own, try each one on, spend 3 hours on your makeup and leave the house feeling like everything totally spiraled out of control and getting ready for a date turns you into an uncontrollable mess!
Yep, Totally get it!
As a woman, you want to fully express your feminity, you want to look your best, dare I say, sexy, while still being modest and classy. The last thing you want to do is send the wrong signals by overdoing it or being perceived as cheap.
You want to make sure that you’re starting things off on the right foot by presenting yourself as confident, brilliant and beautiful.
That’s why in module 3, you’ll get access to the exact formula I use to ensure I’m always sending the right signals, both online and in the real world. Making a great first impression is a skill that you need to master in order to succeed in every area of your life and I’ll show you how to confidently step into any situation without blowing up your closet.
The art and science of a classic outfit. (Hint: The cleavage alone can and will influence the behavior of those around you)
The Mtongwiza method for assessing your social media profiles to ensure your selfies and posts aren't sabotaging your relationships
How to craft an online presence that quickly helps others get to know, like and trust you.
Learn how to decode his silent signals, both online and in real life.
Identifying Mr. Right
Now that you’ve discovered the secret to what makes a marriage work, mapped out your relationship strategy, and made peace with the past, it’s time to get out there and start “romancing!”
For some, this is the most exciting part of the process. For others, it’s the most terrifying.
Wherever you land on the spectrum this module will break down the courting phase into a simple, fun, fear-free process that guarantees you avoid getting stuck in the “just friends/ girlfriend” stage. This way you’re either moving towards marriage or ending the relationship before getting too attached.
How to choose the perfect setting for your first outing that will naturally allow you to evaluate one another’s character while having a memorable experience. (Hint: it doesn’t have to take place in a restaurant over an expensive salad)
The art of starting an authentic conversation. Most people get tongue-tied and don’t know what to say to each other, so they either shrug their shoulders and end the date awkwardly or they rush to see if there's a physical connection. But I’ll equip you with conversation starters that get you both talking about the issues that matter most to each of you.
How to evaluate whether or not the relationship has potential and back out of an unqualified relationship with grace and dignity without drama and heartbreak.
Set your relationship goals and use the courting system to keep you on track.
Implement the 3 step courting framework to effortlessly navigate your way towards marriage
Create an irresistible offer that motivates him to propose sooner rather than later without being manipulative, pushy or forceful
Learn the golden rules for establishing trust and commitment that will slash through the amount of time you have to spend in the “getting to know each other” phase
Use biblical principles to create a relationship that honors God and gives both you and him the confidence to move forward.
Finally, Yes Finally! Prepare to say Yes, because you are Ready For The One.
“What greater thing is there for two human souls, than to feel that they are joined for life– to strengthen each other in all labor, to rest on each other in all sorrow, to minister to each other in silent moments"
– George Eliot
Creating a life together
Now that you’ve found someone you’re interested in, it’s time to develop the relationship and set in on a course that naturally leads to marriage.
Here, you’ll learn how to set your relationship goals with him and establish trust through a highly committed courting experience that serves as the backbone to your potential marriage.
Even if you’ve never been in a long term relationship or had a boyfriend, this module will break down what it takes to move your relationship towards marriage in simple, easy to execute steps that will finally make you feel confident about making a lifelong commitment.
When you enroll during this special,
limited time period, you’ll get:
When you join, you’ll be getting immediate access to the pre-love runway where you’ll dig into the ultimate guide for establishing and enjoying your love life before you ever put yourself out there.
From there you’ll be given access to one module per week (except for implementation weeks) - so that you have ample time to dive into the lessons and implement the strategies BEFORE moving on to the next module.
I do this to protect your time, attention and focus while sparing you from the intense overwhelm that stops most would-be wives from ever learning and using real strategies.
Bonus 1: Pre-Love Runway: Prepare your heart to Love again. Warm up to the idea of Godly Romance (A $597 Value)
Bonus 2: Private Relationship Coaching with Lily, so that you can get personalized advice to help you reach your goals and stay motivated along your journey. ( A $1,050 Value)
Bonus 3: Beautiful Boundaries: Confidently establish boundaries around your time, energy, mind and body. ( A $297 Value)
Bonus 4: After The Honeymoon: what to expect and how to cope with the real-life struggles of married life. (A $497 Value)
Bonus 5: 9 Week Access to A Private Mastermind Facebook group and Q&A with Lily so that you can be part of a group of women who are equally serious about getting married and there to support you along your journey. ( A $597 Value
When you add it all up, that’s a total real-world value of over $5,000.00
But because I’m super excited to welcome you into Ready For The One, I’m giving you the opportunity to enroll in Ready For The One TODAY at a special introductory price of just....
Let me say this upfront,
Ready For The One is the most comprehensive, step-by-step education program for Christian women who are excited and serious about finding love and getting married within the next 3 years.
I am completely dedicated to helping women just like you establish thriving, healthy covenant marriages that honor God. Because I believe that kind of love has the power to change the world. When you join, you get my total support.
Now here’s the thing,
By the end of these 14 days, you will have received access to the Pre-Love Runway, A private coaching call with yours truly as well as the first 2 modules.
Meaning, you’ll have had an opportunity to really get a feel for the course, chat with me and know in your heart that this was a good investment in yourself, your marriage and your future, BEFORE making the final commitment.
If you don’t feel totally confident in your ability to attract a man using these Biblical methods, simply reach out, show me that you’ve done the work, and I will refund your investment. Full Details Here >
The Pre-Love Runway
Prepare your heart to LOVE again & warm up to the idea of Godly Romance
(A $597 Value)
Your ultimate guide to attract a godly man, grow your relationship and build a covenant marriage (So that when he asks you to marry him, you'll be ready to say, “yes!”)
Want to have a solid understanding of what courting and covenant marriage looks like?
Easy: Start with this bonus.
When you enroll you’ll get instant access to the Pre-Love Runway which will help you guarantee unstoppable enthusiasm for preparing for marriage.
Revive your prayer life and get yourself spiritually prepared to receive real love.
Develop a new enthusiasm for marriage and get rid of the guilt of wanting a husband.
Got Baby fever? If you’re seeing babies everywhere and wishing you had one of your own, this will help. Learn what you can do Today to start preparing to be the Mom you want to be.
Get support; learn how to talk to your friends and family about your marriage plans so that they’re supporting you instead of continually asking nosey questions.
Private Relationship Coaching
Get 3 personal 60-minute coaching calls with Lily
(A $1,050 Value)
Get detailed PERSONALIZED relationship coaching from yours truly.
I am so committed to your success that I am prepared to walk you through this journey step by step.
Your first coaching call will be scheduled before the course starts to help you identify your goals.
The second call will be scheduled during the implementation week to help you clear any obstacles.
The third call will take place at the end of the course to help ensure you accomplish everything you set out to do.
As soon as you sign up you’ll be able to schedule your first call.
I will email you the coaching call prep form, which helps me understand your unique strengths and struggles.
During the calls we will tackle any personal blocks that you need to overcome and get very clear about what you want and what’s standing in the way.
We will develop and complimentary action plan that will work in conjunction with Ready For The One to help you reach your goals, overcome obstacles and face fears.
Saying Yes and No with Grace and Dignity and getting the respect you deserve
(A $297 Value)
Have you ever found it hard to say no?
Raise your hand if you’ve ever purposely not shaved before a date, in order to try and trick yourself into avoiding physical temptation. Or, maybe you’ve lied about having your period to get out of a situation that was quickly becoming way too hot.
If so, you might also be feeling some shame about knowing you shouldn’t but doing it anyway.
Yes, we’re talking about sex before marriage.
But that’s not the only boundary you need to establish.
This mini-course will help you confidently establish boundaries around your time, energy, mind and body.
We will also talk about the true purpose of flirting and we’ll look at how to do it effectively.
You don’t have to be a dirty girl and or do anything demeaning to be the get what you want.
This bonus training is all about class!
Discover what healthy boundaries really look like and learn how to identify what you really want.
Be prepared to confidently and elegantly make your boundaries very clear in a way that feels honest and authentic.
Turn awkward conversations into empowering heart to hearts that leave both of you feeling heard and respected.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by the whole modern dating scene this mini course is for you!
After The Honeymoon
Don’t walk into marriage blind to the realities of living with and sharing your life with a man.
(A $497 Value)
At the end of the course, you’ll get one more bonus.
In this training, we will discuss what to expect and how to cope with the real-life struggles of married life.
Because let’s be honest, it’s not going to be all sunshine and roses.
Learn the top 5 things married couples fight about and how to handle those topics before they become and problem.
Money: How to save it, where to spend it, and what financial stability really looks like
Children: How many, when and what to do when things don’t go according to plan.
His and Hers: How are you going to share and divide the household responsibilities? We'll talk about what works in today’s society and who should do the dishes.
Sex: once you’re married you get to finally enjoy as much uninhibited guilt-free sex as much as you want. But what happens if don’t want it? Or, you want it more than him? We’ll talk about how to make sure your sex life is one you both enjoy.
Family: Where are you going to spend the holidays? How much should you be “lending” his sister every month? Why doesn’t his mother like you? Don’t worry, we’ll talk about it now, so it’s not a problem later.
Private Facebook Group
9 Week of Live Q & A Sessions with Lily inside the private Ready For The One Facebook group
( A $597 Value)
Never get left behind
That’s the promise I’m making you with 9 weeks of live Q&As inside the private Ready For The One Facebook group
This isn’t just any random Facebook group.
It’s full of supportive women who are equally serious about getting married and who are on the exact same journey as you.
Meaning there will ALWAYS be an answer to your Qs and you’ll be surrounded by people who get it.
When you join Ready For The One, you’ll be embarking on a life-changing journey that will test and challenge you in ways you haven’t experienced before.
But with both myself and your peers in your corner, you’ll turn isolation into inspiration and frustration into fearlessness.
9 weeks of live Q&A sessions to make sure you get your burning questions answered and can move forward with total clarity and confidence.
Overcome isolation and constantly refill your motivation tank by connecting with other women who “get” the journey and are here to help you cross that finish line.
Overcome isolation and constantly refill your motivation tank by connecting with other women who “get” the journey and are here to help you cross that finish line.
But what if nobody's interested in me.
In Ready For The One, I will teach you the exact steps you can take to get the right kind of attention from the right men. I will help you go from invisible to irresistible, all while maintaining your integrity and honoring God. I will help you discover and showcase your true value so that the man you’re interested has an opportunity to know, like and trust you.
How is this going to be different
If you’ve been dating for a while, and you’re starting to feel frustrated because it hasn’t been going as you imagined it would, this course is going to hit you like a fresh breeze. You’re not only going to learn a new and more effective strategy for taking a relationship from two strangers all the way to making covenant vows. My method is both Biblical and effective. It incorporates beautiful boundaries that you can feel good about and it allows you to grow into the best version of yourself. And I will be there with you to hold you accountable and help you take massive action.
How do I know if I'm ready?
If you’re are serious about getting married in the next 1- 3 years, this course is for you. If you have the desire in your heart. If you know without a doubt that you want to be a wife and create a home with a godly man then you’re ready. We talk about all of the doubts and fears around marriage within the course, and I will help you overcome them so that they have no power or control over the success of your marriage.
Is this just for Christian women?
Yes, this course is for Christian women, I have built it upon the foundational truth that a relationship with Christ Jesus as your Lord and Savior is absolutely essential to a healthy thriving covenant marriage. It’s also packed with Biblical truths and is all created from a Christian perspective. Of course, anyone is free to join, and I would love it if this course served as a tool for evangelism. Non-Christians would also benefit from the course because it’s based on very practical wisdom, but they won’t experience the full benefits without a relationship with Christ.
How much help am I going to get?
As much as you want. You have access to a 24 hour Facebook group where you will be able to chat with other students about what you’re learning. You also have 3 complimentary coaching calls with me throughout the course. You are welcome to email with your questions and ask anything you want to help you achieve results. I am totally here for you!
How long do I have to decide?
Time’s ticking. Enrollment closes on Feb 28th at 11:59 pm. So if you’re thinking about joining us, now is the time to get in. I know it’s a big decision and I have tried to give you as much time as possible to decide. If it’s not right for you today, I understand. I will create a wait list for those who are interested in reconsidering next time. But, I want to be honest and tell you; I don’t know if or when I will be offering this course again.
When can I expect to get married after finishing this course?
When you get married is entirely up to you! But, if you will learn and apply what I’m teaching there’s no reason you can’t get married in the next 1 to 3 years.
I want to get married FAST, will this Help?
No, This is not a quick fix. This isn’t some kind of scammy get married quick scheme. In this course, I emphasize the fact that marriage is a lot of work. That it takes true understanding and commitment. We get into the real details of marriage and I don’t sugar coat anything. I see it as my responsibility to share honest answers and Biblical advice. And rushing into a marriage, in my opinion, isn’t a wise decision. I teach my students to do things with great wisdom and integrity. I don’t want you to get married fast, I want you to enjoy a marriage that lasts.
What if I'm Divorced?
Get in here! This course will help you assess what went wrong in your previous marriage or relationships and help you correct course for next time. It will be a powerful healing tool for you. I firmly believe that our God is the God of second chances and that He isn’t going to punish you with a life of solitude because your previous marriage didn’t go as planned.
Ugh, I'm already so busy, I don't want this to become another thing on my To-do list
I hear ya! There are so many demands on our time. But at some point, you have to prioritize the things that will help you be your best. If you are committed to serving others, you must take care of yourself. This means eating nutritious food, getting proper rest, spending time with loved ones and taking time to celebrate the goodness of God in your life. It also means investing in yourself so that you can serve others from a place of abundance.
What if I fall behind?
Not a problem. You will have lifetime access to the course. If you’re traveling this month, but you know that next month you’ll have more time available, then you can do the course when you come back. You can take it at your own pace from anywhere you have an internet connection. If you can get on Facebook, you can access this course. It’s all online and available whenever.
What if I'm blonde, or from Jamaica or have 3 grey hairs?
We all want to feel like our special circumstance is a good reason to avoid doing something. If you want to make excuses about why this won’t work for you, that’s fine. But ask yourself this question, are you seeing the results you want in your life? This course will work for Christian women. If you can identify as a Christian woman, - doesn’t matter if you’re Catholic, Pentecostal, Presbyterians, Baptist, doesn’t matter what church you go to, doesn’t matter if you believe in full water baptism or not. This course isn’t about those doctrinal issues. I will help you understand how to best incorporate your beliefs into your marriage, but your particular style doesn’t matter as long as we call all agree that Jesus is our Lord and Saviour.
What if I'm just lazy and unmotivated?
If you’re lazy and unmotivated I’m going to be really honest and say that you probably won’t enjoy the course or get much out of it. You will probably also struggle to enjoy your marriage because marriage is also about serving another human being, and it takes a lot of effort. But, if you’re ready to overcome your own laziness because you know that you have something special within you to share with a husband, jump in and we can work on those issues within your complimentary coaching sessions. The biggest questions is, are you willing to change?
What if I'd rather be alone?
If you know that marriage is not the path for you, then this is not the course for you. Some women have a deep and sacred desire to be set apart for the Lord, for the sake of the kingdom of God. If you know that to be true of you, then I respect your decision. But if you’re not sure, Join the course and take the pre-love runway. That’s a complimentary bonus course you will have immediate access to, which helps you really make sure you’re getting married for the right reasons. You’re backed by a 14-day money back guarantee, so if you’re unsure, go through the Pre-Love Runway. By doing the work in that course you will be able to ultimately decide if marriage is right for you or not. If you decide it’s not, just send me an email and I will give you 100% of your money back.
Is this course right if I want to marry someone of a different religion or lifestyle. What if he's an atheist?
This course is designed to help you find and marry a man who will share your faith. A man who will be happy to take his position as the head of the household. Who will encourage you in your walk with Christ. It’s designed to help you avoid being unequally yoked. If you’re already in love with someone of a different faith and you’re not willing to reconsider that relationship, you will find this course very frustrating. You probably need to take it more than anyone. - and you probably won’t.
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I already have a boyfriend or fiance, how is this course going to help?
Yes. This course will be of tremendous value, but only to the extent that you’re willing to evaluate your own motives for marriage. If you’re already committed to the relationship and refuse to reconsider your motives and objectives, then you may not get much out of the course. If however you are prepared to evaluate the relationship and you’re not already acting like you’re married (I have said many times; this generation tends to treat boyfriends like husbands and husbands like boyfriends), this program will help you either say I Do with confidence, or end the relationship gracefully so that you can go and find “The One”.
I'm a Christian but I don't believe in a lot of "church" stuff, I just want to do my own thing. God loves me for me.
This course isn’t about “church stuff”. It’s not about doctrine or dogma. It’s about relationships. But, this course is bible based. This course is about covenant marriage. One Man, One Woman, in a covenant with God. If that’s not the kind of marriage you want this course is not for you.
How does this course work?
This course is all online. With the coaching calls taking place over the phone (or online via Skype) The course starts on March 4th at which point you will have access to the first module (chapter) each module has 3-5 lessons. There are a total of 5 modules in the Ready For The One. You will have instant access to The Pre-Love Runway, and bonus material will be released throughout the course. The live portion of the course ends on April 12th. At that point, you will have access to all the material and can come back and catch up / review and finish whenever you want.
Is this course in person? What if I can't travel?
No, this course is not in person. There is no travel. Everything is online. If you can access Facebook, you can access everything you need to complete the course. All you need is an internet connection.
Do I get access to the entire course all at once?
No, the course will be released one module at a time starting March 4th.
How much time does it take to do this course per week?
I highly recommend that you set aside at least 2 hours each week to go through the material. Some parts will take longer than others but it’s all about how much effort you put into doing the work,
Does Ready For The One help me meet new people?
Yes, I will prompt you throughout the course to go and put insight into action. You will not meet interesting new people sitting in your bedroom. This course will give you the confidence and exact words you need to go and introduce yourself and explore new opportunities. This is designed to be fun and playful. No stress interactions where men have an opportunity to get to know, like and trust you. And it’s designed to avoid drama and sin.
Does Ready For The One cover marriage licenses, prenuptial agreements etc?
No, Ready For The One is not cover the legal processes of getting married. For those decisions, I highly recommend that you seek the advice of a licensed professional who will be able to address your particular concerns.
Can I get a discount for being a student? paying in cash? being a non-profit? Christian?
I firmly believe that I have set a fair and reasonable price for this course. It is packed with value and it goes above and beyond what you would receive at a higher price point with many similar courses. For that reason, I do not offer discounts. I know that $1000 may seem expensive to some, but I know that it is an investment that is totally worth every penny. And if you get into the course and disagree ( you don’t think it’s worth it) you have a 14 day 100% money back guarantee. I want you to be thrilled to be a part of this class, and if you’re not, I won’t hold you.
Do you have a payment plan?
Yes, You have 3 options. A one-time payment of $997 3 monthly payments of $350 6 monthly payments of $175 Choose the one that makes the most sense based on your financial situation.
What if I try Ready For The One and decide it's not right for me?
You are backed by my 14-day money back guarantee. The 14 days starts on March 4th when the program officially begins and ends on March 18th. In that time you will have had access to; The Pre-love Runway, the first two modules of the course, and your complimentary coaching call. If at any point during those 14 days you decide that this course isn’t right for you, show me that you’ve done the work, and I will give you a full refund. Just send me an email with evidence that you’ve done the work, by March 18th and I will give you your money back 100% guarantee.